My birthday is coming up on May 7th – do you have what it takes to be My birthday bitch?
I’m opening my schedule for one special date on my birthday, to explore some sweetly sadistic fantasies that have been on my mind. I’m currently scheduled to be in Philadelphia but could be persuaded to leave it for our celebration if it’s the right Fly Me To You experience. Are you ready to serve Me on My special day?
My last Fly Me to You was an unforgettable tropical experience, and there was nothing like luxuriating on the beach and then going back to the hotel and watching My Toy suffer and enjoy under my care.
I’ll only accept the most special of scenes for My birthday – whether in Philadelphia or beyond, I’m looking for someone creative and ready to dive all in and surrender themselves to Me.
My passion is custom BDSM experiences, and there are several scenes I’ve been dreaming about, waiting for the perfect opportunity to bring them to life.
If you’re interested in serving Me on my birthday, click the link below to reach out. This is an incredibly special opportunity, and only one submissive will make the cut. Are you ready for the sensual BDSM encounter of your dreams?
If you’re not able to see Me on My birthday, check out my wishlist here to send me a gift straight to my door.
Nothing pleases Me more than bringing you into My world and leading you to embrace the journey towards becoming Mine… Wondering what a session may be like? Find out in the words of My dear toy in this testimonial:
“In this session, I could feel a change in my BDSM journey. For a while I’ve been in a place where pain was mostly the force that made me struggle against the bondage. Yesterday was the first time I’ve really embraced the pain on its own terms. You have been central in helping me find that place, first by Your gentle coaching in previous sessions about breathing and mindfulness, and then yesterday by being so tuned in and adjusting the corporal and electrical to push but not overwhelm me. That was amazing and a testament to Your skill – I was fully aware of how You deftly played with that line.
Thank You also for the wonderful rope work. I know it takes longer, but given the process and sensation of the ropes against my skin as You worked, the process was as amazing as the end result. Something about the feeling of You threading the rope around me…building the anticipation, and that little tug when You snug the rope up tight…that sent sparks in my brain. Your rope ties were everything I could have hoped for.
That said, if one of Your ideas called for breaking out the leather and the straps, I’m still game for that, because I’ve experienced what You can do there 🙂
The two gags were the most severe I’ve ever tried, but entirely worth it for the experience. The inflatable gag especially – I was not sure how I would do with that one but the way it filled my mouth, and the feeling when You gave the bulb just a bit more squeeze was all I hoped for. It feels like we have developed a rapport around gags where You know where and when to push me, and I am communicating better at when it works and when it’s too much. You have made gags such a safe and fun place to play.
It made me so pleased to hear that You had had a good time too. Being Your toy, letting You have Your way with me, taking the pain for You – those are all things I want to do for You. Pleasing You is what makes the entire session such a meaningful experience. Thank You again, for everything.”
Whenever I’m face down on the bed I’m disappointed; because I can’t see you. I’m also excited; because I can’t see what’s coming. Will it smack? Will it sting? Will it thud?
I trust your wickedness completely. You’re there 100 % of the time. I hear you purring. What are you choosing? What will bring me pain? I hope it makes you happy. I hope you’re having fun.
Spending time with you is like strolling through an art gallery. Everything you’re exposed to will last forever in your mind. It was created by someone at the top of her craft. It evokes a range of emotions, but ultimately leaves you happy.
For those of you who wish to dig deeper, I have some opportunities to serve Me in a lifestyle setting.
These opportunities are at My discretion and our connection, of course. They can go in many different directions and can occur at various lengths as I handcraft experiences tailored to what I want to do to you, My toy.
You simply need to buckle up for the ride your Mistress Victoria Cayne is ready to take you on.
I call these “MVC chooses your adventure.” you are given nothing other than a time and place, and the command to be there. You will take comfort in the fact you have no choice. All arrangements will be pre-negotiated to your limits and comfort level. Discretion is never compromised.
Creating bespoke BDSM experiences based upon your and My interests has long been a passion of mine, and one I excel greatly at. Perhaps you have been curious about going out, or having someone else join us? Or perhaps you’re an experienced enough submissive who is fully capable of complete surrender?
The most important part is that you sit back, relax and know you’re going to be Mine..
For those of you who are interested in extended lifestyle experiences, there are so many possibilities…this is not for shorter scenes. Everthing is customized by Me. They can take place inside and outside, depending on logistics.
Some examples could be:
“MVC, I am going to be in Boston for an evening. My limits are heavy pain, marks and humiliation. My interests are vast ranging from bondage to tease to cross dressing. I would really like to be pushed…”
Diving and Domination…I most recently have become an open water certified scuba diver dominatrix and love nothing more than playing a game, or “jeopardy.” Imagine a treasure hunt? I would task you with picking out dive sites which would please Me. Or you could stay at shore while I control you with one of My many remote control devices? The opportunities are endless..let’s go deep…
We go out to see The Rolling Stones, and every time “Satisfaction” is said, you have a task, a remote toy will be activated…
I do love playing in my space, but I love the dance and building the organic chemistry which unfolds over extended experiences. The luxury of time is something that only adds to our connection.
As these are very special and customized experiences, getting an invitation from Me is extremely rare and not to be taken lightly.
I do love taking My time. Do you have what it takes to be Mine?
While I do not expect or require gifts, please take note of the following if you are considering getting me something and/or wish to serve from a distance:
As I frequently travel and have limited capacity both at home and in my luggage, please do not bring me gifts in person.
Cash, or tributes on Cash App, is always the most appreciated as it contributes towards my high-quality custom gear, personal enrichment, and unplanned expenses such as car repairs or veterinary costs for my special needs dog.
That being said, I recognize some people prefer a more personalized gesture. For those, the best way to impress me is through selecting an item from my personally curated Amazon and Throne wish lists, or a gift card towards one of my favorite vendors such as Black Lotus Photography.
If you would like to present your gift in My presence, printing out a photo of it, or presenting it to Me in another way, also is another great way to impress Me without inconveniencing me. 🙂
And if you do insist on bringing an item in person, please include a gift receipt.
I am a firm believer in “it is the thought that counts”, so please keep that in mind when getting me a gift!
Lastly, if you are unable to put your name on the gift you send me, please send me an email so I know who to thank!
The year is almost coming to an end, but not before one of My favorite months, #locktober!
For those of you not familiar with Locktober and the absolutely sinful implications behind it, it was formulated as month to celebrate #chastity, and being #locked up. It’s a time for Dominatrixes like myself and submissives such as you to revel in the joys of denial, and for me to push you to your limits of chastity. Locktober is a particular favorite of mine as a long-time chastity specialist, and it’s one of my great BDSM loves.
As much as I love being a proud #chastitykeyholder to quite a few of you, logistically that may not be possible, so I offer other alternatives, such as “mental chastity.” Since diving into the world of chastity can be an incredibly emotional and powerful experience, it is something that should not be taken lightly. If you should decide to embark on this journey with me, however, trust that you’ll be in capable and experienced hands, and that together we’ll have a Locktober you’ll never forget.
Chastity cages come in many different shapes, sizes, and materials, all of which may offer different levels of “comfort,” or lack thereof. ;).
There are so many things that please and excite Me about chastity. Everything from power exchange I get from hearing the click of the lock, to completely surrendering your keys to Me, The art of the tease I encompass to further deepen your chaste state, and denial. As I love to say, “when the simplest of touches, become the most severe.”
You’re about to embark on one of the most scintillating experiences you will have in this lifetime: a Fly Me to You appointment with your Miss Victoria Cayne. What do you need to prepare in order to please her, and ensure an equally gratifying tryst? The devil is in the details…
Why Fly Me to You?
There’s no shortage of impressive dommes across the world, it’s true. A Fly Me to You appointment is ideal for the discerning submissive who is called to my unique proclivities as a sweet and sadistic dominatrix, and desires to be pulled into my world. This style of engagement allows us to deepen in an organic relationship, pushing the limits of depravity tucked away from the outside world.
Planning in Advance
We’ve all felt the pull of immediacy in our desires – wanting that instant release of pleasure. How much more satisfying it is to let that desire simmer as you await in eager anticipation for your wildest fantasies to come true. Planning a Fly Me to You appointment takes care and consideration; I recommend reaching out at least a week in advance with your vetting information at the ready so we both have time to make all the necessary arrangements.
Communicating Your Desires
Communication is always key prior to a session, regardless of the location. Fly Me to You appointments take an extra degree of preparation, however, as I’ll need to know prior to traveling what implements to bring with me. If you’re interested in exploring something new but aren’t yet sure if it’s for you, let me know! And if you’d like a session with larger or more specialized equipment needs, advance notice is necessary so I can make the necessary arrangements with a local dungeon. A full list of My Interests can be found on my website.
Choosing the Right Accommodation
Whether I’m in your home city or we’re rendezvousing somewhere delectably new, I prefer our engagements be held in hotels, dungeons, or private residences. Keep your desires in mind while booking your accommodations, and the layout of the space that will best facilitate your fantasies. Common considerations are the size of the room, style of bed, furniture, and layout and size of the bathroom. Worried you won’t find the right fit? You can let me and my do all the planning for you.
Crafting an Atmosphere
For dates of all lengths, my goal is to have you immersed in the delights of our perversions. Think beyond the date itself and leave space in your day to both prepare and unwind from our session. For those lucky enough to be booking an extended engagement, I recommend planning food and leisure activities for us to recoup our strength before the exploration begins anew.
Still have questions? Inquire directly via email at victoriacayne@protonmail.ch . Please include the following information in your missive:
Enveloping and enchanting you with my mere presence, you are so close, yet so far away. Are you destined for tease or denial this time? Tease and Denial, or Edging is such a beautiful dance I confidently interlace with my dominance. Imagine yourself bound by the chains of submission, teased by the tantalizing temptress known only as MVC, your Philadelphia Dominatrix. Listening to the soft whispers of My voice, guiding you towards the desperate dance only possible under my complete control.
Securely bound and thrusting against the restrictive nature of your cage, enjoying the predicament as it squeezes you towards denial. The closing of the lock to seal your fate, only which I will control. The true power and control which I exude over you as I am now your chastity key holder, is intoxicating and invites me to tease you further.
The clinking of the keys or my nails against your cage, reminds you that your denial is even more a reality. Locked and owned, you are now in chastity for Me!
Only then will the true edging begin…
Not only do I enjoy using my body to remind you of what you cannot have, My chastity toy, I have many other methods which I love to employ…
None of which are for the faint of heart…
First of all, meet The Venus for Men, previously sold as the Venus 2000 which is a self-actuated masturbation aid for men that applies sexual stimulation using a mechanism outwardly similar to a milking machine. The machine works with or without an erection. In addition to masturbation, the machine may also be used for orgasm control practices such as edging or forced orgasm.
As if that isn’t enough, I also have The Edge-o-Matic 3000 or NoGASM, a “smarter orgasm denial device (for all humans, which also includes men and women) that uses a hollow inflatable butt plug to detect orgasm via muscle contractions in the area. As the user approaches orgasm, these involuntary contractions are recorded and measured to estimate arousal levels and control external stimuli accordingly.”
The true art of tease and denial is something I love to encapsulate my toys with as a gateway towards your deeper submission. Do you dare to join?
Read a firsthand account of what it is like being locked in Chastity for me: Here
Ready to experience the desperation like never before? Contact me to begin the journey!
Welcome to my kinky clinic, where all of your medical fetish fantasies will come true!
I have a fully equipped medical fetish clinic in my play space in the Philadelphia area, but my love for medical play extends far outside the physical clinic. Your fantasies will be brought to life, with me as your Nurse/Doctor. Whether it is a physical exam, where some areas may be tested with my medical implements, or a kinky treatment plan… the possibilities are endless.
Imagine being exposed for your nurse to examine and determine the best course of treatment for you. Everything from stainless steel urethral sounds, enemas, catheters, dilators, and speculums may be determined as an appropriate treatment. Perhaps there is a diagnosis that may need one of my cures.
When engaging in medical fetish play, equipment matters!
Medical fetish play can be enjoyed on its own, or also incorporated into other scenes. I have an unmatched medical clinic and implements that range from:
Urethral Sounds
Urethral Dilators
Catheters
Eros Tek (multiple boxes)
Violet Wand
PES
Speculums (all shapes and sizes)
Neuro Wheel
Venus 2000
Play Piercing
Sutures
Staples
Segufix
Medical Restraints
What are you waiting for? Your Nurse is waiting for you to schedule your exam.
Greetings. I am Miss Victoria Cayne, a seasoned professional dominatrix with over 15 years of experience, and I am here to share my insights on how you can best prepare for a session in my realm. As someone who has built a reputation in Boston and Philadelphia and beyond, I understand the importance of a well-prepared and engaging experience. In this blog, I’ll be your guide to ensuring a session that is not only memorable but also safe, consensual, and tailored to your desires.
Understanding the Dynamics:
Before we dive into the preparation process, it’s crucial to acknowledge the unique dynamics of a professional dominatrix session. This experience is a delicate dance between physical and psychological realms, requiring open communication, trust, and mutual consent. With my years of expertise, I assure you that you are in capable hands. This guide aims to empower you to make the most of our time together.
1. Communication is Key:
The foundation of any successful session lies in open and honest communication. Before we meet, take the time to express your desires, limits, and any concerns you may have. I encourage you to share your fantasies, as it allows me to tailor the session to your unique preferences. Remember, our goal is to create an experience that pushes boundaries while ensuring everyone involved feels safe and respected.
2. Research and Understand Your Limits:
Educate yourself about BDSM practices and identify your limits. Knowing what you enjoy and what you’re uncomfortable with will help us design a session that aligns with your desires. Whether it’s bondage, role-playing, or sensory play, having a clear understanding of your boundaries enables a smoother and more satisfying experience.
3. Hygiene and Presentation:
Good personal hygiene is not just a courtesy; it’s an essential aspect of any BDSM encounter. A clean and well-groomed appearance demonstrates respect for yourself and your dominatrix. Additionally, remember that first impressions matter, so present yourself in a manner that reflects your commitment to the experience.
4. Arrive on Time:
Punctuality is a virtue in any professional setting, and BDSM sessions are no exception. Arriving on time allows us to start the session promptly and ensures you have ample time to relax and discuss any last-minute concerns or adjustments.
5. Be Open-Minded and Trust the Process:
Embrace the unknown and trust in the expertise of your dominatrix. I have spent years honing my skills and understanding the intricacies of BDSM. Let go of preconceived notions, be open to new experiences, and allow yourself to surrender to the journey we’re about to embark on together.
6. Respect and Professionalism:
Mutual respect is the cornerstone of any BDSM dynamic. Treat your dominatrix with the same courtesy and professionalism you would expect in any other professional interaction. Remember that the power exchange is consensual and rooted in trust, creating a safe space for exploration.
7. Aftercare Matters:
The session doesn’t end when the implements are laid down. Aftercare is a crucial part of the experience, ensuring that both parties feel supported and cared for after intense play. Take the time to discuss your feelings, and allow yourself to decompress in a comfortable environment.
8. Reflect and Provide Feedback:
After the session, take some time to reflect on the experience. What worked well? What could be improved? Providing constructive feedback not only helps you understand your own desires better but also aids in refining future sessions for an even more satisfying encounter.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, preparing for a session with a professional dominatrix involves a combination of communication, self-awareness, and trust. By following these guidelines, you’ll not only enhance your own experience but contribute to the creation of a memorable and mutually fulfilling encounter. I look forward to the pleasure of guiding you through the uncharted territories of your desires.
Remember, consent and communication are the pillars of our journey together. Until then, stay kinky and embrace the adventure that awaits.
If you’re ready to take the plunge: check out my Contact page to get in touch!
